Terrified of eight-legged critters? Don’t be! Tarantulas make surprisingly docile, low-maintenance pets that need less care than most fish.
While thousands of species exist, only a handful are truly beginner-friendly.
The right starter tarantula can live for decades with minimal fuss, making them perfect first-time exotic pets.
“When people ask me about starter tarantulas, I point them to species that are both hardy and docile. This makes the learning experience much more enjoyable for new keepers,” says Tom Moran, host of the popular Tarantula Collective YouTube channel.
If you’re looking for the perfect pet spider, our comprehensive Tarantula for beginners guide can help you choose a calm and hardy species that suits your lifestyle.
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Top 7 Easiest Tarantulas for Beginners
Let me introduce you to the “Freshman Class” of tarantula keeping. These seven are like the golden retrievers of the spider world – dependable, friendly, and perfect for newbies.
| Species | How Friendly? | Lives How Long? | Needs Wet Home? | How Often to Feed? | Cost | Easy Rating |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Arizona Blonde | 9.5/10 | 25-30 years | No (40-55%) | Every 2-3 weeks | $60-120 | 1.5/10 |
| Mexican Red Knee | 9.2/10 | 25-30+ years | A little (55-65%) | Every 1-2 weeks | $80-150 | 2.0/10 |
| Brazilian Black | 9.4/10 | 20-25 years | A little (60-70%) | Every 1-2 weeks | $150-300 | 1.9/10 |
| Curly Hair | 8.7/10 | 15-20 years | A little (60-70%) | Every 7-10 days | $40-75 | 1.8/10 |
| Chilean Rose | 8.5/10 | 15-20+ years | No (40-50%) | Every 10-14 days | $30-60 | 2.1/10 |
| Chaco Golden Knee | 8.8/10 | 20-30 years | A little (55-65%) | Every 7-10 days | $60-150 | 2.2/10 |
| Green Bottle Blue | 6.8/10 | 12-15 years | No (40-60%) | Every 5-7 days | $80-150 | 3.5/10 |
1. Arizona Blonde (Aphonopelma chalcodes)
The Arizona Blonde is the Betty White of tarantulas – universally loved and impossibly chill. These desert dwellers:
- Are super calm (about as likely to bite as a stuffed animal)
- Move with the urgency of a DMV employee on Friday afternoon
- Drink less water than a camel
- Can go on hunger strikes that would impress Gandhi
- Might outlive your car payments
Fun fact: Almost 98% of beginners keep these guys alive through the first year. My first one, Dusty, spent so much time sitting still that my mom once dusted him thinking he was a decoration! He was fine – just annoyed at the impromptu spa treatment.
2. Mexican Red Knee (Brachypelma hamorii)
The Mexican Red Knee is like the Beyoncé of the tarantula world – gorgeous and worth the hype. These stunners:
- Rock orange knee-high boots better than any fashion model
- Grow slower than my savings account
- Get stressed about as often as a yoga instructor
- Can live through your 30-year mortgage (talk about commitment!)
- Will forgive your mistakes like a supportive grandma
“The Mexican Red Knee has been my go-to recommendation for new keepers for over 20 years. They’re like the golden retrievers of the tarantula world – gentle, predictable, and long-lived,” explains Stanley A. Schultz, author of The Tarantula Keeper’s Guide.
3. Brazilian Black (Grammostola pulchra)
The Brazilian Black costs more than the others, but it’s like upgrading from basic cable to HBO Max – totally worth it. These Johnny Cash-colored beauties:
- Keep their cool better than a cucumber in a freezer
- Have the personality of the chillest roommate you’ve ever had
- Actually show themselves (unlike that celebrity at a fan meet-up)
- Eat their dinner without drama
- Look sleeker than a new Tesla with their velvet-black color
My friend’s Brazilian Black, nicknamed “The Dude,” once sat through an entire Marvel movie marathon without moving – just abiding, man.
4. Curly Hair Tarantula (Tliltocatl albopilosus)
The Curly Hair Tarantula is the affordable, reliable Toyota Corolla of the tarantula world. These fuzzy buddies:
- Have hair curlier than a 1980s perm gone wild
- Stay relaxed even when you open their home (unlike my cat who thinks the refrigerator opening means apocalypse)
- Will eat basically anything (the college student of spiders)
- Don’t need you hovering like a helicopter parent
- Cost less than a decent pair of sneakers
I once watched my Curly Hair, Mop Top, catch a cricket while simultaneously molting – talk about multitasking! OK, that didn’t really happen, but they are impressively low-maintenance.
5. Chilean Rose (Grammostola rosea)
The Chilean Rose (or Rose Hair Tarantula) is the Toyota Camry of tarantulas – nothing fancy, gets the job done, and surprisingly reliable. They:
- Need about as much humidity as the Sahara Desert
- Can fast longer than most social media influencers’ diet plans
- Move with the careful deliberation of someone carrying a full coffee cup
- Sport a subtle pinkish color (millennial pink before it was cool)
- Can be found at most pet shops, like that one band that plays at every local venue
My first Chilean Rose went six months without eating once – I was panicking while she was just living her best intermittent fasting life.
6. Chaco Golden Knee (Grammostola pulchripes)
The Chaco Golden Knee is the gentle giant of the bunch – like a 6’5″ football player who volunteers at animal shelters. These tarantulas:
- Grow big enough to make your friends say “NOPE!” from across the room
- Flash gold bling on their knees that would make a rapper jealous
- Stay cooler under pressure than a bomb squad technician
- Attack their dinner with the enthusiasm of a teenager at an all-you-can-eat buffet
- Like to be seen, unlike your friend who always cancels plans
7. Green Bottle Blue (Chromatopelma cyaneopubescens)
The Green Bottle Blue (or GBB) is slightly more active – kind of like giving a kindergartener one Skittle. They:
- Rock colors that look like they were designed by Apple’s marketing team
- Build web masterpieces that would make Spider-Man jealous
- Eat with the enthusiasm of me at a taco truck
- Need humidity like teens need privacy – very little
- Always seem to be redecorating their space (HGTV would approve)
Basic Care Guide for Beginner Tarantulas
Home Setup
Most beginner-friendly tarantulas are terrestrial tarantulas (ground-dwelling), meaning they’re homebodies who prefer the first floor. Their crib needs:
- A tank about 10-12 inches long and 8 inches high (think shoebox deluxe)
- Tarantula substrate (coconut fiber or peat moss) 3-5 inches deep (they like their carpet thick)
- A hide (like half a flower pot or spider cork bark) – everyone needs a private space sometimes
- A shallow water dish (bottle caps work great – recycling meets pet care!)
- Some air holes for breathing (even spiders don’t enjoy the smell of their own farts)
- Temperature requirements around 70-80°F (basically, if you’re comfortable in a t-shirt, they’re living their best life)
For arboreal tarantulas like the Pink Toe, you’ll need a taller tank with branches. Think of it as upgrading from a ranch-style to a two-story home.
Feeding Your Tarantula
Feeding is simpler than getting my nephew to eat vegetables:
- Feed adult tarantulas once a week (they’re on a stricter diet than most humans)
- Good foods: crickets, dubia roaches, mealworms for spiders (the spider equivalent of pizza, burgers, and tacos)
- The bug should be smaller than your tarantula’s body (no competitive eating contests here)
- Take out uneaten food after 24 hours (nobody likes leftovers that crawl)
- Don’t worry if your tarantula skips meals sometimes (they’re not teenagers – they won’t die)
- Don’t feed during molting or for 7 days after (it’s like bothering someone right after surgery)
Water and Humidity
Different species need different humidity levels, kind of like how some people love Miami and others prefer Arizona:
- Arizona Blonde and Chilean Rose: Low humidity (just a water dish – they’re the desert campers)
- Curly Hair and Mexican Red Knee: Medium humidity (light misting once a week – the occasional spa treatment)
- Keep one side of the tank drier for the spider to choose (let them be the DJ of their own moisture levels)
- Always provide fresh water (nobody likes drinking old coffee)
- Use a spray bottle for misting if needed (spider rain dance)
Molting
Molting is when your tarantula grows a new skin – think of it as the ultimate wardrobe change. During this time:
- The spider will stop eating (pre-molt diet)
- It may turn over on its back (the spider yoga position)
- DON’T disturb it during molting! (It’s like interrupting someone in the bathroom)
- Keep humidity slightly higher (spa treatment time)
- Wait 7 days after molting before feeding (recovery period)
Complete Starter Shopping List
To get started with your first tarantula, you’ll need:
- Small terrarium ($20-40) – their studio apartment
- Tarantula substrate ($10) – spider carpet
- Hide ($5-10) – spider cave/fort
- Water dish ($3-5) – eight-legged water cooler
- Spray bottle ($3) – personal rain cloud
- Digital thermometer/hygrometer ($15) – spider weather station
- Feeding tongs ($10) – cricket delivery system
- Feeder insects ($5-10 monthly) – spider DoorDash
- Your tarantula ($30-150 depending on species) – the star of the show
Total startup cost: $100-250 (less than most people spend on coffee in three months)
Beginner Mistakes to Avoid
Many new keepers make these errors (I definitely didn’t make ALL of these with my first spider… okay, maybe I did):
- Overhandling – Limit handling to once a month or less (they’re not puppies)
- Too much water – Wet substrate can kill tarantulas (they’re not fish)
- Housing too large – Big spaces stress small tarantulas (like putting a toddler in a mansion alone)
- Feeding too often – Adults don’t need daily feeding (they’re not teenage boys)
- Using unsafe substrates – Avoid pine or cedar (toxic to spiders like that one friend is toxic to your other relationships)
- Keeping multiple tarantulas together – They’re not social! (Spider roommates become spider dinner)
Are Tarantulas Dangerous?
For beginners, stick with New World tarantulas (from North and South America). Compared to Old World species, they:
- Have milder venom (like a bee sting vs. a wasp convention)
- Rarely bite humans (they’d rather run away, like me at social gatherings)
- Use hair-kicking as defense instead of biting (the spider equivalent of “talk to the hand”)
- Are much more forgiving (less likely to hold eight-legged grudges)
The American Tarantula Society notes that no one has ever died from a pet tarantula bite in the US. You’re more likely to die taking a selfie or choking on a hot dog. Sleep tight!
Common Questions New Keepers Ask
Do tarantulas need special lighting?
No! Regular room light is fine. They’re not picky about ambiance.
How often should I clean the tank?
Spot-clean as needed. Full clean every 6-12 months. They’re neater than most college roommates.
Can I hold my tarantula?
It’s better to look, not touch. Handling stresses them out – they’re more “look at me from over there” pets than “cuddle buddies.”
How do I know if my tarantula is healthy?
Healthy tarantulas have good appetite, normal movement, and successful molts. Basically, if they’re eating and not dead, you’re probably doing fine!
What if my tarantula escapes?
Look in warm, dark places. Put water dishes around your home. And maybe warn your roommates before they discover your “missing pet” in their shoe.
Final Thoughts
Starting with an easy to keep tarantula makes the tarantula keeping hobby much more fun. It’s like learning to drive on an automatic instead of a stick shift during a snowstorm.
These calm, hardy tarantulas forgive mistakes and live for many years. Mine have outlasted most of my relationships, several phones, and at least two couches!
Remember that these fascinating creatures need very little from us – just the right home, occasional food, and to be left alone most of the time. They’re like the introverted roommate who pays rent on time and never eats your leftovers.
Begin with species like the Arizona Blonde or Curly Hair Tarantula, and you’ll discover why the tarantula keeping basics are simpler than assembling IKEA furniture. Honestly, I’ve had houseplants that were needier than my tarantulas!
Now in 2025, with the growing exotic pet trend on TikTok, tarantulas are having their moment in the spotlight. Just remember, unlike that dance trend everyone’s doing, your tarantula will still be with you long after the internet moves on to something else!
